Discover If You’re Dating a Man-Child with Dallas Matchmakers

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Men come in all shapes and sizes. They are all unique. While there are great men out there, our Dallas matchmakers know there are also many players flooding the Texas dating scene. However, the players and jerks aren’t the only men you need to stay away from in the modern dating scene. There’s another type of guy out there, one who hasn’t fully grown up yet.

It’s not always easy to spot a man child. But don’t worry, our matchmakers here at Dallas & Fort Worth Singles have years of experience helping single women in Dallas steer clear of men who are no good for relationships. Today, our Dallas matchmakers will show you how to spot a man-child.

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1. He has no dreams or goals in life.

One of the easiest ways to spot a man-child is by listening to his topics of conversation. Does he always avoid serious talk? And on the rare occasion that he does talk about his goals, do you find that his ambitions in life are that of a child? Do his goals include partying on the weekends or buying another toy? I

2. He is very lazy.

This doesn’t just apply to the relationship. This guy is lazy in all aspects of his life. He doesn’t want to get out of bed before noon, he doesn’t like to go out with friends unless, of course, there’s alcohol involved, and he doesn’t like to work. He also thinks that because the two of you have been dating for a few months now, that there’s no need to continue putting efforts into the relationship.

3. He only lives for the now.

He hasn’t learned any lessons from the past and doesn’t care about what the future brings. Because of his careless attitude, you struggle with making important decisions about the relationship. You never know where things are going because he doesn’t care about the future. You might feel like you are always forcing him to do things. He has made you the leader of the relationship and let you call the shots; however, if something goes wrong, he always blames you for it.

4. He is always blaming you.

When you date a man-child, nothing will ever be his fault. Everything that happens will always be your fault. Instead of coming up with a solution to a problem, he would rather just point the finger at you and let you fix it yourself. Remember that a man-child is just a child that can’t take responsibility for his own actions. You’ll never get an apology from a guy like this.

5. He expects you to take care of him.

He always expects you to be there to take care of him. In fact, you have taken on the role of his mother in this relationship. He is just like a 15 year-old kid who doesn’t know how to pick up after himself. While you, as a women, might enjoy taking care of your man, our Dallas matchmakers don’t want you to be taken advantage of by this guy. Yes, it’s nice to do things for your boyfriend, but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t also be contributing to the relationship. If he expects you to take care of him all the time, dump him.

6. He doesn’t know how to compromise.

Long and healthy relationships require both partners to compromise. Both partners should come up with a win-win solution that benefits the relationship. If you find yourself always being the one to give while your boyfriend does all the taking, then he is taking advantage of you. This man-child doesn’t know or care about compromising and isn’t worthy of your time.

7. He can’t handle conflict.

Look out for this one, ladies. A man-child always runs away from conflict. It doesn’t matter if you get into a small argument with him or it’s something major, you will notice that he will take off running at the first sign of trouble. He doesn’t know how to handle the difficulties in life. How can you expect him to handle issues in the relationship if he is always running away?

8. He doesn’t know how to communicate with you.

He always makes you guess how he’s feeling and what he’s thinking. If you don’t get it right, then he gets mad at you for that too. He’s so afraid of getting his heart hurt that he keeps everything to himself.

9. He doesn’t like to talk about serious things.

Whether it’s commitment, moving in together, or the future of the relationship, he never wants to talk about anything serious. Every time you bring up something important, he switches the conversation. Ladies, if you are dating a man-child, leave him now because you’ll undoubtedly get your heart broken. This type of man needs to grow up and learn to handle life.

10. He is selfish in all aspects of life.

Not only does he expect you to do everything for him around the house, but he is also selfish in bed. He is more concerned about himself than you. This guy doesn’t care about you at all. How can you expect to live with a man like this for the rest of your life?

11. He doesn’t have your back.

There will be times in your relationship when people are against you. During these times, it’s great to know you can count on your boyfriend to have your back. But you can’t do this when you’re dating a man-child. He doesn’t know how to stand up for you or is just afraid to do it.

12. You can’t count on him.

Every woman wants someone they can count on to be there for them, someone to be by their side when they’re sick. If you’re dating a man-child, don’t count on him. He will probably be too busy playing video games, drinking with friends, or just doing anything he can to get out of taking care of you when you need him most.

Ladies, it’s time to find yourself a grown man who is serious about you and the relationship. Dump that man-child and let our Dallas matchmakers introduce you to quality men who are serious about dating. Fill out the simple survey at the top of the page to reserve your FREE matchmaking consultation and get started today!

 

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