DFW Singles | How to Stop Falling for Guys You Barely Know

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Do you tend to fall hard and fast when you meet a new man? Do you have a tendency to fall head over heels over every guy you barely know? If you’re one of the many single women in Dallas who falls for every guy she meets, AKA all the wrong guys, you’re not alone.

It’s no secret that we often search for that special someone in all the wrong places and at all the wrong times. Unfortunately, this leaves us crushed and with major heartache. Then we promise ourselves that it’s not going to happen again… Until it does.

Does this sound like your romantic life? If so, we’re here to help. Here at DFW Singles Dating Service, we’ve helped thousands of single women in Dallas-Fort Worth overcome their dating obstacles and are confident we can help you too.

You deserve that special someone to share your life with, and we’re going to show you how to find him. Get ready to find out how to stop falling for every guy you barely know so you can leave room for the right guy.

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Make a List & Stick to It

No, we don’t want you to write out a mile-long list of all your wants and desires in a man. If you write out an unrealistic list of things you want in a guy, no man will ever be able to check every box on your list. However, you should have an idea of what you want in a partner and from the relationship. You want to make a list of the absolute most important things for you, call them must-haves.

Must-haves don’t include physical characteristics, such as blonde hair, blue eyes, and ripped abs. Uh-uh, no way. Your must-haves should consist of personality traits and values. Do you want someone who is hardworking and dedicated to their career? Do you want someone who values family and wants to start a family of his own someday? Do you want someone who shares your religious beliefs? How about your love for the outdoors? These are the things you can put on your must-haves list. As matchmakers, we know these things are important in determining long-term compatibility, so they should be included on your checklist.

Don’t Neglect to Think About Deal Breakers

Just as you want to have a few must-haves in mind, it’s advisable to put a few deal breakers on your list as well. If you already know you will not settle down with a guy who smokes, then smoking should be on your deal breakers list. If your ex was a gym rat and sports fanatic who never made time for you because of his obsession with working out and sports, then make sure you keep that in mind on your search for love. A lack of time management skills and the unwillingness to make you a top priority in life should be deal breakers for you. Deal breakers will prevent you from falling for the wrong guy and not realizing it until it’s too late.

Stop Chasing Love Down

As professional matchmakers, we know better than anyone that if you want to find love, you have to get out there and look for it. You have to be proactive on your search for that special someone. But at the same time, you can’t be so desperate to find love that you fall for anyone. You can’t settle for anyone on your search, which is why it’s important to go back to that checklist when you meet someone new. Ensure they have what you’re looking for in a long-term partner so you’re not wasting your time.

Not falling for every guy you barely know has everything to do with being able to evaluate your dates and being able to assess their personality traits and values to ensure they match with what you want in a life partner. If they don’t and you can’t see yourself with them for a lifetime (assuming you’re looking for a life partner/spouse), then move on. Don’t waste your time dating the wrong guy and lose out on the right one.

If you’re single and searching for that special someone with no luck on your own, contact our professional matchmakers here at DFW Singles Dating Service and let us save you time and disappointment. Let us introduce you to quality single men in Dallas-Fort Worth who are relationship-ready and compatible with you.

To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today.

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